2.01.2013

The Colors in My Life

In honor of Black History month, I'm re-posting something I wrote a year ago at this time.  I continue to be amazed at the range of colors God paints His children. 

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   "COLORED PEOPLE" (title borrowed from the Newsboys)

February is black history month.  Which got me thinking about the African-American people in my life.   And I realized something. 

They're not really black

According to the Valspar color chart, my friend Sandra is Cherry Chocolate.  My friend Yvonne is English Tea Party

Our nephew's wife is definitely Au Lait Ole (love that name.)  Here she is with our nephew, who I think is Cinema Screen.


They'll have beautiful children.  (2013 update:  they've since had a boy - here he is.)
 

Clearly, even within races, people are different colors. 

Within families, too.

Another nephew married a woman from Thailand.  According to Valspar, she's Prairie Dance.  Which suits her.  Fresh and graceful. 

Here she is with our nephew, who I believe is Bread Basket.

Their two-year old is China Moon.  How cute is that? 


I matched up my own offspring.      

In the Valspar palette, our oldest son is March Breeze.  His fiancee (now wife) is Lilac.  Interestingly, both spring shades.     


Our daughter, who carries mostly our Irish blood, is Pressed Blossoms


When our youngest son (who most strongly carries my Cherokee blood) was a kid, his sister decided he was the color of a hot dog.  

I thought he was more of a graham cracker.  

Turns out...he's Picnic Basket!  When he tans in the summer, he's Cowboy Boots.  

His wife is Edelweiss.   


More beautiful children.

My husband is Desert Travels.  I'm Asiago.  Apparently, sand and cheese produce wind, flowers, and wicker.  Who knew.
 
We all have a color.  Sometimes, it even changes.  

Look closely... 


This sports card was given to me by our youngest son, who was about ten at the time.  I think it was a birthday gift.

We howled because the head is so fitting, literally.  Also because I've never been viewed as an athlete, and here I am, playing basketball with the Bullets.  HA!!

On my husband's birthday, he got a card too...


It struck me later - a lot later - that our pale heads were on darker bodies.   

It wasn't important for our youngster to match arm skin with face skin.  He needed size to match, and maybe angle.  Color wasn't a factor.

I love that about these cards.

They hang on the refrigerator and often catch the eyes of guests.  Guests don't notice the mismatched body suits either.  They chuckle at the goofy heads on professional athletes. 

It makes me smile.

And gives me hope. 

In God's rainbow, we ALL have a home. 

What color are YOU?    

Click on this link and find yourself: 

http://www.valsparpaint.com/en/explore-colors/color-selector/index.html#1
Tip: The light from the monitor will prohibit your ability to find a match by holding your hand/arm up to the screen.  Use a hard copy picture to compare complexion to the color blocks. 

PLEASE share your color here, or comment below the facebook link. 
I'd love to know how many colors are represented in my life.  :-)

16 comments:

Retired Knitter said...

Beautifully written post.

My own observations include the fact that when we mix the races, we usually get a person who is more attractive than either of the parents. It happens all the time. I think is is God's lesson to us ... if we care to listen!!

I don't share that observation with many people because it sometimes backfires on me - old fashion attitudes die hard in human beings. But I thought I might be safe expressing it here.

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

I love the names you've given to all the beautiful colors in your family. We are all so very precious no matter what shade we are. Yes even here in my family we have different tones to our skin. My oldest has a darker complexion like my mother did. I believe we have some American Indian in our family too. One of my great greats married and Indian in Virginia way back in the 1700's. Don't know what tribe that could be. And one of my boys is so fair that he has to really watch out for sunburn...it doesn't take much. He takes after my Dad whose ancestors were Hungarian. What a unique mixture we all are.

Juli said...

I love this post. I wonder what color I would be. :)

Tamera Brose said...

Every time I try to buy foundation to match my skin tone I realize how one size fits all can never work. I always walk away cuz I can't even figure out what I am. God does have a wonderful color pallet when it comes to his creations.

Jo-Anne Meadows said...

Great post yes we are all different there are not set colours in my opinion which is why when I hear those "white extremist" talk about "white power" I think they need to have a good look in the mirror as generally speaking there is no such think as a "white" person............

Juli said...

PS I'm somewhere between City Sunday and the bubbly. :) Which honestly, is my personality to a T!

Kenya G. Johnson said...

I love this post Mare and everyone's name. I couldn't find one for me, though I stopped at plenty saying that would be a nice hair color or lipstick. I tried to find the palette that your nephew's wife was on, I figured I'd be around AU Lait Ole also. But I'll just name myself because I've thought of this when I prepare my coffee. Espresso Roast with a heaping tablespoon of creamer. That's my winter color ;-) When I lived in Florida - year round I was Espresso Roast with two teaspoons of creamer.

Cecilia Marie Pulliam said...

I love this! (especially since I have a thing for rainbows, anyway). Your post is a beautiful illustration of how we should celebrate our uniqueness, not differences, and besides the subject matter, so entertaining. Perfect. :)

Stacy said...

Loved this! :)

Annmarie Pipa said...

yep..in God's rainbow we all have a home!!

Damyanti said...

Lovely post, and cute pics.

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Elizabeth said...

For a long time I've believed the only way we will finally erase racial bigotry is for people to intermarry with people of other races.
Lovely post and well worth repeating.
P.S. I think I'm Winter Evening, but will be a different color in the summer.

Danielle L Zecher said...

Mare, this post is just beautiful. I recently had a conversation with a friend about how sad it is that racism seems to be alive and well. It's so refreshing to read something like this.

The light is bad in the computer room right now, but I'm really looking forward to matching everyone up later.

mare ball said...

Thanks to all my "colored" friends for responding! We should all be proud of whatever color we are!

Cindy Dwyer said...

What a fun post. I missed it the first time around so I'm glad you revisited it.

Melanie said...

I love this. My older son asked me once about the shades of skin, and I realized I consciously don't describe people by color to them because I don't want them to see it. And at 6 and 8 they rarely ask about it. Although we are getting there with topics like slavery, concentration camps, and bigotry of all varieties. But for now, I'm happy to foster their color-blindness.