12.31.2011

Out with the Old...and the Yucky.

Yesterday, my daughter and I had planned to take my folks out to a movie.

About an hour before we left to pick them up, a staff member from Southland called to say they had closed their doors to all visitors, and no residents were leaving.  A gastrointestinal bug called Norovirus had infiltrated the building, and many residents and some staff members were spending a lot of miserable time in the bathroom.

The health department had issued something just short of a quarantine. Apparently, this bug is making its way across Florida.

Worrisome news.  Depleting gut viruses are very hard on the elderly. 

My next thought was that Dad would be very disappointed that he was not going to see the movie and possibly have ice cream afterwards.   I called him, wondering how he would entertain himself for three/four days with no visitors and no outings.

He answered the phone in a near whisper.  "We're sick," he said.  "I've thrown up four times since last night.  I've never felt so sick in my life." 

He and Mom both had been knocked flat by the Norovirus. 

Well, I wanted to go right over.  Who was helping them get to the bathroom?  Bringing them water?  Keeping up on the laundry?

I've had gastro bugs before.  They're painful and disgusting and gross.   And kind of scary.  You feel like you're five years old again.

I called Southland and talked to the only office staff member that was not out sick.  She assured me the nurses and CNAs were checking on residents, cleaning up as they went, doing their best to explain to everyone why they had to stay in their rooms.

Southland office staff.  The two bookends are just back after two days out. 









I can imagine the overload.  The weariness.  The pile-up of rubber gloves.
 
Dad was too weak to refill his med box for the week, so a staff member retrieved it from his room and brought it to the front office for me to restock.

I sat in the director's office (she was out sick) and meted out the pills.  I wiped off every bottle and the pill box with Lysol wipes.   Then I squirted a glob of hand disinfectant onto my palm and scurried out.

This afternoon...things seem to be looking up.

I talked with Mom briefly on the phone, and she said it had been exactly 24 hours since either she or Dad needed to race to the toilet.  Now, she said, they are just weak.   She's spending short periods of time sitting up in her glider and has started reading the book Killing Lincoln.

I would think she'd want a lighter read after so much gut-wrenching trauma to the system, but that's me. 

Dad is still "under the weather," according to the nurse.   But, it sounds like the worst has passed.

Tomorrow should be a better day.

It's a new year, so I'm hopeful.  It's a good time to leave old things behind.  Things that are not beneficial.   Like the Norovirus. 

Here's wishing your gut a calm, uninfected New Year.


12.28.2011

Finale

OK, so this vintage couple I've been writing about...these two...


I actually know them.

Mr. Suspenders - I used to tuck him into his sleeper and read him bedtime stories.

And lovely Ms. Tendrils - she's his bride of almost three years. 













They didn't elope.  

He does work in foreign imports, but it's Gucci, not the mob.   I believe he would love to write for a living.

She used to work in a bank, but now works in an animal hospital.   I don't think the dress was her grandmother's, but we can pretend.

He did carry her diamond in his pocket for a bit before he popped the question.


















They loved being models for a day and will forever cherish these photos.


So will we.  

Check out this great photographer: LAURA YANG

12.27.2011

What's the Story?

I posted some beautiful photographs a few days ago by Laura Yang.  They follow a couple through an afternoon in and around a small, college town in the South.   

The woman has dark, flowing curls and porcelain skin.   


The man is tall and dark and pleased with himself.


I think they're striking and adorable.

Because my house is in disarray, and I haven't figured out my new camera yet, I'm taking a creative break to imagine the story of Ms. Tendrils and Mr. Suspenders.  

They met in 1949.   She came from money.  He worked his way up the family business, which is foreign imports.   With a shady aspect.  Which he won't discuss.

She finds this intriguing, but doesn't press it.  She loves him and hopes for an ivy-covered cottage in the country where she can escape social expectations.  She wants a vegetable garden and babies. 

He has a diamond ring in his pocket.   

OR....

They eloped because both come from working class families, and they wanted to spare their families the expense.  She works in a bank, and he's a struggling writer.  She hates her job, but it brings in some money.  He loves to write, but can't make a dime.  They take modeling assignments to pay the bills.  The dress she's wearing belonged to her grandmother.  

 What do you think?


12.24.2011

Merry Christmas!

Wishing everyone a blessed Christmas weekend! 

My prayer for all who visit this blog of my heart is this:

1.  That the Christ child will touch your heart in a new and profound way this season.

2.  That you will have peace in your family.  If that is not attainable, then God's peace in your heart about what you cannot control.

3.  That jobs will come to those who need them.

4.  That those who are ill will find healing.

5.  That those who must work on Christmas day will receive many 'bless yous' from those they help.

6.  That whatever material gift we're given, we remember the real gift is in the thought behind it.

7.  That all travelers will be safe.

8.  That nobody slices a finger carving the roast beast.

9.  That no fruitcakes pass your doorstep. 

10.  That there's enough pie to go around.

Wise men still seek Him.

 

12.23.2011

Holiday Blessings

I was blessed in two beautiful ways today.  Two glorious, Christmasy ways.

Miss Curly-cute and her parents came over today for a cookie bake.   Miss Curly-cute's mama wanted to experience our sugar cookie-baking tradition, and her hubby was off, so he came too.   It was messy and flour-y and sweet and jolly-ful. 




You just can't beat an apron-wrapped, three-year old decorating with sprinkles and red-hots.  




Dear, Lord.  I keep chuckling. 


Mama helped a bit with these. 

The other blessing today - I entered a "win a turkey" contest through THAT COUPON LADY earlier this week.   And I won!

I had entered on behalf of the Humes family, our church friends who are featured in this 3-minute clip:  DAVID HUMES.

We delivered the turkey this evening.  David and Joanna and their three girls were very grateful for the turkey (a small ham and some other groceries were also included.)

On her own, the coupon lady contacted a friend in the medical field, who in turn donated over 400 dollars worth of medical supplies to David.  We had a wonderful, somewhat teary-eyed visit.

The coupon lady's sweet son, the coupon lady, David and Joanna

I can't imagine a better way to spend the eve of Christmas Eve.   It was so rewarding and fun to simply give.

The giving continues until December 31.  The "12 for 12" Project will put a little extra cash into the Humes' coffers.  If you'd like to contribute, this post will tell you how: "12 for 12".  Thanks to all who have contributed so far!!

I'm going to go have a cookie now.


12.22.2011

The Tall & The Small

I saw the coolest thing today.


I was face to face with a giraffe.

She was munching some sweet potato stars that were hanging on a branch three feet from me.

It was breakfast time at the zoo.


She sauntered out with her family a little after ten this morning.   She had a new baby, which the zoo was naming today.

My daughter and I went to celebrate the event with Miss Curly-cute and her mama.   Here's Miss Curly-cute awaiting the event.


The name of the baby giraffe was determined by which branch the mama giraffe chose to eat from first.  Three branches were decorated with treats and a name.  The branch closest to us was chosen, thus the baby giraffe's name is Zainabu.

If we had chosen names for our children based on my food choices after giving birth, they might have been named Hershey.  Or Meatball.

Papa giraffe loped around proudly, keeping an eye on his brood.


He was massive, with precise puzzle-piece markings.  We felt like peanuts in comparison.

Giraffes are fascinating to me.  Their coats are so vivid and beautiful.  Their square bodies and column heads are supported on these spindly legs.  With knees that fold backwards.  

And their tongues are black. 


They posed for us a lot today.  So gracious of them.




Miss Curly-cute posed too.


All God's creatures like to be noticed.

At one point, the sun streamed through the trees while mama was nuzzling her youngin'. 


Rainbow light pointing out new life.

It reminded me of starlight pointing out new life two thousand years ago.

Animals were involved then, too.  Sheep and probably a camel or two.   A donkey.   Maybe some chickens.  

I'm grateful the world is full of strange and interesting creatures.  


Some are stranger than others.

12.21.2011

127 Dresses

Katherine Heigl thought she had a stuffed closet in "27 Dresses."

Our daughter is flying to NJ in a week and taking with her an extra suitcase stuffed with over 100 little dresses. 


The suitcase weighs a ton, even though the individual dresses are light as a feather.   They're made from pillowcases.


Students from the local Catholic high school sewed 100 or more pillowcase dresses for children in Africa.   Teenagers working for and donating to youngsters they will never meet.

Nothing warms my heart more than seeing young people give to those less fortunate.  


The dresses will travel from NJ to Africa by way of the Salesian Sisters.


They're a bit wrinkly (the dresses, not the sisters) because they've been in a suitcase for a while.  In Ziploc bags.


 I love this one. 


Perfect little sundresses for needy little girls in a faraway land.


I love the simplicity, practicality, and adorability of this gift.

If you'd like to make one, simply Google "pillowcase dress" and several links pop up.   This would be an easy beginner project for mom/aunt/grandma and daughter/niece/granddaughter.  Or any mix of the two.

Imagine what could be done with a fitted sheet.  Those stretchy, can't-fold-the-darn-thing corners ought to be good for something. 



12.20.2011

12 for 12

A family in our church has been on my mind this week.

The father, David, was in a diving accident a few years ago and broke his neck.   He is now a quadriplegic.  He has a wife, Joanna, and three daughters.

Financially, they have struggled since the accident.   When the bread winner is sidelined, the bread significantly diminishes.

In spite of this tragedy, this family remains solid in their faith.  David and Joanna are gracious and hopeful. 

Many members of our church help this family when they can.  My daughter is dropping off Christmas groceries as I write this.

What Joanna and David are looking for currently is a new house.  With the special equipment David needs, and three growing girls, they have outgrown their home.

I can't get them a house (although I'm looking into the Extreme Home Makeover criteria), but I can do something.  So, I'm creating "12 Dollars for 12 Days," and asking you to consider participating.  

In keeping with the 12 Days of Christmas theme, I'm inviting you to donate 12 dollars to the Humes family (December 20 - December 31.) There is work being done to establish a foundation for David Humes, but in the meantime, you can send a check to our church, earmarked for David Humes.  Info. below.

A few days before Christmas....it's the worst time to ask for money, I know.  But, I watched this three-minute video on David this afternoon: David Humes I was reminded again how much I have.   Additional giving around the holidays is sacrificial, and God honors that.

I imagined myself in Joanna's place.  I would have to depend on much generosity from others.   It would be humbling and difficult and scary, and God would have to help me.

But, He would.  Mainly, through other people.

That's how God works.   

Click on the link above and meet the Humes family.   Our pastor is featured as well. 

Then...think about it.  Pray about it.  And see if you would really miss 12 dollars (you can certainly donate more, if you feel called to.)

No obligation here.  God loves a cheerful giver.  I'm just sharing what is pressing on my heart today. 



Send checks (made out to Joanna Humes) to:

Father Tobin for David Humes
Ascension Catholic Church
2950 N. Harbor City Blvd
Melbourne, FL   32935

Thanks for reading.

12.18.2011

The SPICE of LOVE

Our niece and her groom had some unusual, but delightful guests at their wedding last week.

A baker and his wife.

Two alley cats.

A couple of Red Sox players.

Two Cardinals.

A couple of heifers.

Mr. and Mrs. Pug.

Two pig skins.

Granny Smith and the Apple of her Eye.

Mr. and Mrs. Sundae

Two peas in a pod.

And others.  They all came in pairs.  It was like Noah's Ark.   


Every table at the reception hosted one of these special couples.   When it was announced that someone at each table would be gifted with a ceramic pair, people began to scheme and trade.

My brother-in-law stuffed Mr. and Mrs. Helmet Terp in his jacket pockets as soon as he spotted another guest eying the two.

One guy offered me money for Ms. Bossie and her bottle.  


I tucked them in my bra to keep them close to me.  

Things got rather ugly.  Before we left, a fracas broke out over the Red Sox players.  Tragically, Mr. and Mrs. Pug were injured in the fray and had to be disposed of.    Very sad.

Ok, I'm exaggerating a bit.  But not much.  Next to the bride and groom, these couples were the most sought after.

These creative shakers had meaning because our niece is a Baker, and she married a Saltmarsh.   Cooking and baking and seasoning and spices.  And everything nice-s.  Very poetic.

I hope Granny Smith got home OK.

12.17.2011

HANDMADE

My camera arrived today, thank you very much brother Phil!  I was so excited to use it, I took it to a Christmas party tonight and left it in the car.

When I got home and downloaded non-Christmas party pictures, I came across images of some handmade items that warmed my heart.  If you live up north, you might need a little heart-warmin' too.

My daughter has been creating a visual journal, which involves painting over a used book.  She tries to spend time on it every day.   I've posted two pictures in former posts; here are two of the latest pages.



I love the colors.

She's loosely following an art book that suggests a theme for each page.   After you scrapbook/paint the background, you fill in with text, as much or as little as you want.   It's a creative way to express your thoughts/feelings/fears/dreams.

I never learned to paint, so it always amazes me when artists use pigmented goo from a tube, sponges, fine-haired utensils and toothpicks to create an image that is not a hand-drawn turkey.

When I was in Maryland recently, I noticed some other creative artistry.  My sister-in-law's beautiful white nativity set was on display.  Among the smooth, porcelain figurines stood a few characters with a different ambiance.

See if you can pick them out.


I believe these are the Toilet Paper Roll Kings.  (I just noticed one of the porcelain dudes is kneeling before an outlet cover.)

I love the happy faces, the rick-rack and pipe cleaner belts.  I think the king on the right is wearing a tie on his head.

The king on the left is my favorite.   His mustache is thick as a snake and grows up to his eyebrows.   He must not have had time to trim it.   He just flapped his napkin over his head and followed the star.  


The middle king is the only one with arms. 

These kinds of creations are so endearing.   Especially at Christmastime.  Mixed among the polished and the beautiful are the simple and the humble and the burlap-y.   We're all welcome to come into the stable and meet the baby. 

And that's good news.  Joyful news, really.


Here are my joyful people.  They're part of the advent wreath I made in a pottery class five years ago.   The bookend people were taller, but their legs disappeared in the kiln.   They're still happy.

Because Christmas is coming.

And art is forever.